I love al fresco dining - food simply tastes better outdoors! Simple food - even better!
Earlier in the day, Mum would have roasted a whole chicken, or baked chicken thighs and legs, and chilled them. She would have boiled potatoes, hard boiled eggs, and chilled them to make her Potato Salad. Somehow, she would have found the time to bake a cake, or fruit pie to take with us.
We'd load up the Station Wagon and head for Lighthouse Park, Cates Park, Stanley Park, Spanish Banks, or Deer Lake. Those were the days before seatbelt legislation, when we kids would all be riding in the lowered back seats of the car, waving at every passing motorist, or loudly counting every out-of-province license plate we could see (California plates were coveted).
Our local deli counter has as many as four different potato salads from which to choose. Some are made with red potatoes, green beans and a vinaigrette, some have ham and grated Cheddar cheese in them, some have hard boiled egg. Simple food is not so simple. Family tradition, and regional differences, play a big part in potato salad choices.
Mum's Potato Salad was made with white potatoes, hard boiled eggs, celery, fresh parsley, mayonnaise, mustard, a little pickle relish, salt and pepper. Onions were omitted for Dad's sake. The egg yolks and mustard gave it a sunny yellow glow. Her Mother-in-Law made it the same way. Comfort food, made with love. The first time I made it for my husband, he could barely eat it.
His mother was a terrible cook, with a great job as the head of room service for a famous hotel. She brought home amazing left overs. In his teens, he would hang out in the hotel kitchens, watching the chefs prepare classic dishes. He was a far better cook than I will ever be: his Seafood Lasagna and Bouillabaisse were divine!
"This is not Potato Salad!", he declared, glaring at his plate. "You never put hard boiled eggs in potato salad!" Horror creeping across his face, he cried,"pickle relish?!!" With a look of disappointment, "you made it all mushy. Where are the potato pieces? You should be able to see pieces of potato". About the only thing he liked, was the mustard. Gordon Ramsay would have been in tears!
I learned to make his favourite Potato Salad, adding pickle relish and Egg Salad to my own. We'd eat outdoors, on the balcony, listening to the evening song of the birds and squirrels. "Ruint it", he'd say, pointing to my plate, and imitating an old Irish priest, "ya ruint it". He'd wink, and all would be well with the world.
It's been nearly two years since he died, leaving me with mostly great memories (the potato salad al fresco fiasco aside). Dad died when I was 17. Mum has been paralyzed for more than 30 years. All of my Grandparents are gone. It's no picnic. All the more reason to celebrate life, by creating more picnics in our lives!
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Love your family picnic story and your Mum's potato salad. I don't remember eating potato salad until we moved from Montreal to Florida. I have not made potato salad but a couple of times In my life. I shall have to make your recipe to see if I like it.
ReplyDeleteThanks Monique, If there's one thing I now know, is that Potato Salad is best made to your own taste! Let me know what you create!
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